The baptism is one of the most important events in a family’s life, and the gift has a special role. As at a wedding, guests contribute to the costs of the party, but tradition places more emphasis on the gesture made for the child than on the amount.
In general, at a baptism you give about 30% less than at a wedding, because the event is usually smaller. Godparents are the exception: their role is central and their gift is the most substantial. Below are guideline figures for 2026.
How much to give at a baptism in 2026 — guideline amounts
| Who gives the gift | Guideline amount / person |
|---|---|
| Colleagues and acquaintances | 300 – 450 lei |
| Close friends | 500 – 700 lei |
| Close relatives | 650 – 1,000 lei |
| Godparents | 1,500 – 2,500 lei |
Amounts per person, for a guest attending the baptism party. Figures vary depending on region and venue.
Note: Real amounts can differ from these estimates — every event is different. The estimates are based on data published for the 2026 season, but give what you can comfortably afford; your presence matters more than the sum.
How much to give at a baptism compared to a wedding
As a simple benchmark, the baptism gift is about 30% smaller than the wedding gift for the same relationship. If you would have given 700–1,000 lei at a close friend’s wedding, a gift of 500–700 lei at their child’s baptism is considered appropriate in 2026. The principle remains covering the cost of the meal plus a contribution.
How much godparents give at a baptism
Godparents have the main role at a baptism and, by tradition, give the largest gift. They often cover part of the ceremony costs (the candle, the baptism outfit, sometimes the restaurant), and their cash gift usually starts at 1,500 lei and can exceed 2,500 lei, depending on means and region.
Money or gifts for the child?
At a baptism, many guests combine a cash gift with a present for the little one. Clothes, toys, books or traditional jewellery (a coin or a small gold chain) are common choices. If you prefer a single gesture, an envelope with an amount suited to your relationship with the family is always welcome.